What to say to women being unfaithful
Really, it’s hard for us to figure out what to say to women you know are being unfaithful to their husbands. Honestly, there doesn’t seem to be one standard way to go about it. You have to first decide for sure that you know of the woman’s cheating ways, then you have to confront them about it. During that moment of confrontation, there are so many possible ways for you to open the conversation that we could easily see how you might be paralyzed by indecisiveness. That’s fine, because this is a historically awkward situation to be in. Our empathy certainly goes out to you.
Confrontation — should you go through with it?
Deciding whether to confront this woman is one of the hardest decisions you will ever make. On the one hand, you really have no place in budding into other people’s lives. On the other hand, you might know the woman’s husband personally, and consider him to be a great friend. In that case, you might feel as though you owe him something, and might feel the impulse to confront his wife about what she has done. The choice is ultimately up to you; just know that it will most likely get really ugly, really soon. Even though a woman might acknowledge that she is in the wrong when you confront her about her cheating, she will in all likelihood not bow down to you in the conversation without chewing you out about your own issues. Never underestimate a woman’s toxicity when it comes to verbal battles.
Cheating is an inexcusable act
At the end of the day, even though she might be shrieking at you for confronting her about her cheating, the ultimate fact is that cheating is an inexcusable act, and she is ultimately in the wrong here. She cheated on her husband, whom she was supposed to love and be loyal to, and whom you might have gone on several fishing trips with. This completely scars you, so you can’t imagine what it might do to your friend if he finds out. Even though the woman is valiantly defending herself during your bout of verbal jousting, even she realizes deep down that, by cheating, she has broken the most sacred of bonds, and there’s really nothing concrete that she could do to repair the situation.
Did you catch them having sex with someone else?
Of course at one point you have to ask yourself how you know that this person is cheating on her husband. Did you just hear about it from a source, or did you catch them in the act? Are you basing your suspicions on her facial expressions and nothing more? It’s one thing to suspect a woman of cheating, it’s another thing entirely to know for a fact that she cheated. Before taking any sort of action whatsoever, you must first confirm to an absolute certainty that the woman you have your eye on did not cheat on her husband, through whatever means necessary. If you are not prepared to take this step, then we urge you to wipe the matter from your mind entirely, and just move on with your life. However, if you do commit to finding out beyond a doubt whether or not she cheated on her husband and your friend, then you are in the position to make a decision on how you will proceed in this matter.
In the end, it’s none of your business
Really, though we are not saying one thing or another about what you should do here, in the end we believe that it’s important to keep in mind that none of this is really your business. Sure, you are personally invested since it is your friend who is being cheated on, but you have no fish in this fight, so there is no inherent obligation for you to intervene. In fact, one might say that your obligation in this case would be to stand by the sidelines and not intervene at all, because it really doesn’t concern you. However, we don’t really believe in absolutes, and we think that some rules are meant to be broken. In the end, you need to weigh the facts together and determine if confronting the women you suspect of cheating is in everyone’s collective best interest. We trust that you’ll make the right decision. If you don’t, take solace in the fact that you tried your very best, and you have some valuable data to use for next time. Worst case scenario you could always breakup with her. I will recommend you this article to get over her really quickly.
Good Luck !